How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

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Relationship advice on how to get your ex girlfriend back.

Breaking up is never quite easy.. easy to do, or easy to deal with afterwards. You may be feeling disappointed and dejected as things aren't working out as well with your girlfriend as they should have. And since it involves another person, it involves emotions.

Maybe you have realized that you still have feelings for your girlfriend, and want this relationship to work. And you want the girl back in your life again, so things can be back as they used to be.

First off, it is important to realize that there is nothing wrong in feeling this way. There is absolutely no shame in wanting to have your girlfriend back in your life. But before taking any action, you need to ask yourself the hard question first - is that what you REALLY want? Are you sure it is not a momentary misgiving that you feel that way right now?

If the answer is a resounding YES, the second thing to remember is to NOT act in haste. When emotional turmoil is involved, people often make hasty and unwise decisions, which can only make matters worse. Many times, there is a right approach and a wrong approach in dealing with our issues, and the right one usually warrants an emotional balance.

So how exactly to go about working to get your ex girlfriend back? Here are the 3 tips relationship expert Jason Hicks suggests to do, right after the break up:

1. Take a day or two off

Yes, this will give you a chance to cool off a little, and actually think this through. Whether you are working, or still at school, take the day off, spend it by yourself, and use it to reflect on what happened. See if you can figure out exactly WHY the relationship went down the road it did.

What went wrong? There must have been a wrong turn some where.. a misunderstanding, an over-reaction.. something. Once you can exactly identify the reason, it is so much easier to get your girlfriend back again.

Of course, it may not be as simple as fixing just that one thing, but that can be the starting point, and the biggest hurdle that needs to be fixed.

2. No contact rule

Second, try to have no contact with your girlfriend for a week or so after the break up. This is usually the hardest part to do, but the easiest to mess up as well. By doing this, you not only give yourself a chance to reflect on the situation, but also increase the chances of your girlfriend actually missing YOU, arousing curiosity in her to see what you are up to.

On the contrary, by contacting her in haste when your emotions are still tender, you may increase your risk of saying or doing something, that can potentially make the situation worse than it already is.

3. Have a plan

Use this week to work up a solid plan to get your girlfriend back. Having a plan is effective because it will help you move in the right direction, and help you avoid making common mistakes with your ex.

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