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Improving Self Esteem

Building Confidence and Self Esteem - 5 Tips

On this page: Practical Tips for Improving Self Esteem. Also points to self esteem activities, and ideas for building confidence and self esteem.

If you believe you suffer from low self esteem, you are not alone. Read on below for some tips and advice on improving your self esteem, or you may choose to listen to audios designed to help build self esteem.

Improving Self Esteem is a natural way for gaining self confidence.

Improve Your Self Esteem - 5 Tips


1. Quit criticizing yourself, and others

To quote Maxwell Maltz from his extremely popular self help book, Psycho-Cybernetics:

"Watch for self-criticism - the moment you recognize it happening, pull yourself up short and stop it."

improving self esteem - stand tall and speak your mind, to help boost self esteem Besides hurting your self esteem, negativity - even on yourself - hurts you in other ways by increasing your stress levels.

And negativity on others speaks volumes of low self esteem as well, and eliminating such negativity plays its part in lowering stress levels and improving self esteem.

Your motto should be: Accentuate the Positive. Eliminate the Negative.

How about when you do need to make a necessary critical comment? While you would like to avoid being critical for most part, when you do need to do it, always direct the criticism towards the issue at hand, never towards the person.



2. Speak your mind, and receive criticism gracefully

Don't be afraid to say your mind. Don't necessarily think in advance what you are going to say; just say it, as long as it is not your intention to willfully hurt someone, of course.

And say it clearly and loudly. Make it a habit to speak loudly and clearly. No need to yell, of course, just as long as you know it is loud enough that others don't need strain their ears to hear you, or ask you repeat.

And be graceful when accepting criticism as well.

You can disagree with it, and say so if you do; or you can learn from it if there is truth in it - either way, try not to be overly sensitive about it.



3. Compliment people when you like them

Be direct. It is amazing how complimenting people complements your self esteem.

Another Idea:

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4. Resist being a perfectionist

Its perfectly normal to be imperfect, but its normally considered abnormal to be too perfect. avoiding the trap of perfectionism can help in building confidence and self esteem

Don't tie your self esteem to always being perfect; it's okay to be less than perfect occasionally, and it's also quite normal to fail occasionally.

Being flexible and taking it easy is also one of the good tips for preventing stress.



5. Develop a good body language

Look your best, stand erect, walk well, look in the eye.

A regular exercise regimen will help attain most of these physical attributes, that help in improving self esteem and building self confidence.

In addition to these tips, you may also try self hypnosis audios specifically designed to improve self esteem.

And here are few more ideas for raising self esteem.




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