Pursuit of Happiness - Where is Happiness?Frequently Asked Questions
Do happy people attract only good things in their life, or are they happy because only good things happen to them? Well, sometimes, bad things do happen to happy people, of course; its just their attitude that drives them forward in those trying times. It is because they decide to be happy, in spite of the situation at hand. With such an attitude, little things don't bother them much, and when they do run into big troubles, they keep moving on - so it may appear to others they are happy all the time or at least most of the time.
Does everyone have the power to make themselves happy? Absolutely. There are several ways to make oneself happy. Pursuit of meaningful goals and hobbies, making it a habit to consciously live in the present and giving all attention to the present, and learning not to fret on trivialities by taking things easy, are just some of the ways of getting there. These need to be cultivated, just like any other habit, over a period of time. And with practice it is within the reach of everyone.
Why do people like to build their happiness on someone's misery? Is there a better way? Actually there is, and it is quite the opposite way. Helping others taste joy by giving, without expectation of reciprocity, is a great way for stumbling on happiness. The short answer to this eternal question on how to find happiness is - Give Happiness!
Is there a link between money and being happy? Does more money make people happier? Money does not buy you happiness, but money definitely is a means to buy things that you think will make you happier, at least momentarily. But money is not a prerequisite for true happiness, and one can achieve it without money as well, with a little practice. Pursuit of meaningful goals and hobbies, living in the present and not stressing on trivialities are all recipes for more permanent happiness. Return from Pursuit of Happiness Page Related Links |
