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Self Esteem Worksheets

On this page: What are Self Esteem Worksheets. Questions they typically contain. Points to free self esteem assessment and worksheets.

Fear of public speaking, fear of asserting yourself, social anxiety disorder - low self esteem manifests in many ways.

Self Esteem Worksheets can serve as an excellent resource to get you started on the path to a better self esteem. Like self esteem games, these are self esteem self help tools - whose main objective is to help us identify the areas of low self esteem that we most need to work on.

A lot of times, we may know we have a self esteem problem, based on few low self esteem signs, but are unable to put a finger on what the issue exactly is, or how to go about beginning to fix it.

In such situations, self esteem worksheets can help us drill down to the specific self esteem problem, and often times, identifying the problem is the first step towards addressing it.

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Questions Found in Self Esteem Worksheets

smiling lady self esteem worksheets While the actual questions vary across different worksheets, they usually fall into TWO typical categories.

Questions to help us get to know a bit more about ourselves:

Like what we think about our appearance, our strengths or weaknesses, or our achievements, for instance.

Sample questions:

What do you think about your appearance? Are you happy about the way you look? Do you think you have less attractive features than others, in general? Or more?

What do you think are your physical or intellectual skills, or your positive personality traits? What about your weaknesses - skills or personality traits that you think you lack, that may be needed for more successful, happier life?

How about your career, or your other achievements? Are you happy about where you are in your career and life, right now? Are you proud of your current position, or achievements?

Or do you feel you haven't reached up to your potential yet? If so, why do you think so? Do you generally feel you are not quite good enough to do something? Are you afraid to try new things because you feel you will mess it up?



Questions to help us understand a bit more about our interactions with others:

Like with our partners, or coworkers, for instance.

Sample questions:

If you are married or otherwise committed to another individual, are you happy within your marriage or relationship?

old men talking self esteem building A relationship could also mean any other generic relationship, in which another person is involved - like your work relationship with your colleagues.

Is there any dissatisfaction arising from your association in any of your relationships? If so, why do you think?

Is it because you find it difficult to assert yourself in your relationship, or in most social situations?

Do you find yourself constantly being talked into doing things you don't want to do?

Do you find yourself frequently apologizing for your actions, in any of your interactions with your partner, or others?

Maintaining Lists of Our Positives

self esteem assessment by listing your positives Answering the above questions to the best of our ability, in quiet surroundings that ensure reflection and maximum concentration, can give us a good picture of how we see ourselves.

That knowledge and insight can then help us point to areas , that might need some improvement.

Self Esteem worksheets can further focus on remedying certain low self esteem situations, with few more questions/suggestions along the following lines:

  • Listing our accomplishments - even not so big ones - like passing high school.
  • Listing compliments and positive feedback that we receive from others.
  • Listing our skills - even relatively overlooked ones - like driving a car. If you can't find many, asking others is a good idea, as you may be surprised at all the good things they may say about you.
  • Listing your positive personality traits - even little ones - like being extra patient with elderly who cross the street. Or listing the positive adjectives that you or others use to describe you.
  • And putting a positive spin to the negative things you say about yourself, or hear others say about you - and rewriting them in a positive way. Like saying "I tend to details very well", instead of saying "I am picky".

Such continued positive feedback is essential for self esteem building, so it is a good idea to keep such lists close by; that lets us quickly look at them to bring up our morale, during the times we feel a bit low or down about ourselves.

It is also a good idea to get into the habit of developing our own self esteem worksheets tailored to our specific needs, as that can increase the odds of their effectiveness.



What Next?

By taking self esteem courses, playing self esteem games, and working on your self esteem worksheets or activities - you do whatever it takes to be the best you that you can be! And as you do, you will find that your life becomes that much more fun and interesting!

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For plenty more self esteem worksheets, checklists, fill-ins, and exercises that show how thoughts, emotions, health and behavior impact our self esteem, be sure to check out the The Self-Esteem Workbook.



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